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Apr 6

seeleysgirl replied to your post: Hey Sweets! Do you and daisy want kids? :) I don’t

What would your names be when the time comes? Have you and Daisy discussed those? :)

We haven’t really discussed names yet. If I let Daisy talk about names, she’s going to get all excited and get her hopes up and nothing good will come out of that. But that’s a good question! I don’t know really. Maybe we could name him/her (the baby, I mean, whenever it’s born - in the future, not now though) after one of my parents. Maybe their middle name. I don’t know. I haven’t really thought that far ahead. It’s really hard to think about anything when Daisy won’t let me get in a word in - let alone letting me shut the blinds first!

Apr 6

re-x replied to your post: Hey Sweets! Do you and daisy want kids? :) I don’t

UGH SWEETS JUST GET MARRIED AND HAVE BABIES WITH DAISY ALREADY

Hey, you can’t rush these kinds of things! Having a baby is serious business! And besides, I asked Daisy once to marry me and look what happened. I don’t think either of us are going to be getting married anytime soon. At least not until I know we’re both sure.

Apr 3

Hey Sweets! Do you and daisy want kids? :) I don't

Anonymous

Well, now that Dr. Brennan has given birth, I can tell you that Daisy has been kind of baby-crazy as of late. She won’t stop talking about them! She even wanted to be doula certified for Dr. Brennan! I told her we’d talk about it. Having kids is a lot of responsibility and I’m not sure we’re ready for that. But I certainly do want kids in the future. It’s always been my dream to be able to show a child the love my parents showed me when I was adopted.

I probably shouldn't even ask this, but I want to ask someone so I'll do it anonymously... so I feel like I might be bisexual. And I don't know how or if I should tell anyone about it. I know for a fact that my family will probably hate me and never see me in the same way again for even thinking something like that. And I don't think my friends would like it either. They act accepting of that stuff, but they're really not. So I don't know what to do. And now I'm running out of space in this...

Anonymous

Well, you’re not definitively sure that you are bisexual? If you’re so concerned about the responses you will get, I would make sure you’re sure of yourself before you say anything. Secondly, if you’re so worried that your family will hate you, you don’t have to tell them. I’m not saying that you should hide who you really are, because that’s what makes you you and people should be able to respect that. However, if you feel that this is something better left unsaid, at least for a while until you can process things a little better, then by all means, take your time. There is nothing wrong with having worries or doubts about this. There are many people who take news like this the wrong way and if I were in your position, I too would feel a bit cautious about it. I would tell you not to worry about it too much. There are some things in this world that we cannot control, and that’s life. Take some time to make sure you are sure of yourself before you say something that you feel you might regret. I’m always here if you need me.

Hey Sweets! What would you do if someone made you a PowerPoint to get you to follow them on tumblr, twitter, or something else? What would you do???

Anonymous

If someone went through the trouble of making me a PowerPoint, I would watch it. Why? Did you do it?

How often do you come on tumblr to answer questions? How many do you normally get?

Anonymous

I try to get on as often as I can. I haven’t had the chance to answer any questions in a while but I will get to them all when I have the time. 

It depends. Some days I get a lot of questions, some other days I don’t get any at all. Including yours, I still have about ten questions pending at the moment. Work has been keeping me extremely busy lately. But I will get to answering everyone soon, you have my word.

Aw, Sweets, it seems like you've abandoned your blog a bit. Have you been really busy lately or just tired of answering our questions? XD

Anonymous

Hey! Don’t worry, I haven’t abandoned this blog.

I’m really sorry for the long wait. I’ve been super busy at work lately and I haven’t had any chance to come online. I have many questions waiting to be answered and I promise I will get to them all as soon as I can! :)

You seem to have alternating periods of high self esteem and then very low self esteem. Which one do you have the most often?

Anonymous

I’m not sure how you’ve noticed this, but…

Having alternating periods of self esteem happens from time to time with everyone, not just me. That said, yes, you’re correct in your assumptions. Sometimes I get doubtful about myself but that’s mostly because of things that have happened in the past. If you’ve seen some other responses I’ve given to some previous questions, you might have noted that I had a difficult past. I had a very hard time trusting myself and accepting the things that happened. I try not to dwell but sometimes it’s difficult to forget things. Sometimes things come up and I focus on them, and that’s when I get my lows. Most of the time, though, I would say I have high self esteem. And if not high, then somewhere right in the center, “normal” amounts. It’s only occasionally when I allow myself to get low, and it usually doesn’t last long. I’ve learned to turn those feelings around and focus on the now. It’s something that I think helps a great deal.

Is it wierd being scared of Ghost and other unnatural things in the dark, if you don't believe in such things as ghosts?

Anonymous

I think it’s normal to be afraid of the dark. Even if you find yourself being a skeptic about those kinds of things, the dark is mysterious and the idea that something or someone could be lurking there without our knowledge is something that probably frightens everyone from time to time. No, it’s not weird. The dark is freaky. I’m not particularly frightened by it and I’m not a 100% believer in the supernatural but let me tell you, spend some time in the hallways in my apartment building when it’s dark and you will be getting the heebie jeebies.

Are you a squint, g-man or something in between?

Anonymous

G-squint?